Suicide is happen when somebody try to kill him/herself for ending their life. Somebody who try to end their life confess that her life’s is uncertain. And in that time, in her mind is suicide. “Can be told, suicide is an emergency exit which is can i take anytime” said her who ever took 15 tablet influenza and drunk exterminate insecta. Everybody knows that suicide actions is forbid by religion. And it consider as a loser actions which is horrible. Beside this action, directly it born to be the most caused of the died. According to World Health Organization [WHO] about Indonesia, they’re arround 15-35 years old is anxious this action. Different with girls, men of course is reported doing suicide. Because they usually use hard method such as using gun or hanging himself. But in the others side, girl is more often noted doing suicide effort than men. For example they’re using toxic or take drugs more than doses.

They wouldn’t do suicide action without reason. They must have reason  for ending their life. One of their reason is depression. According to WHO, it has incrase suicide actions as big as 60 % in the world in 1950 & 1995. The caused is depresion. Don’t too fast to judge something that girl who is depression had imagination to end their life, is not have healty mind. Exactly, many cases’ve tried suicide is done by smart person. However, they’re broken off caused they have too much hope with theirself. The important things, in the midle of critical condition, they’re regret, sad, depression, or broken off. But they don’t have spritual illness. The truth is their emotional side is distrub.

The signs when somebody try to kill him/herself?. They try to kill theirself when they’re missing something interested which can make them happy, broken off and always tired with they’ve done, long sadness happen in their life, less or too much eating, feeling that they’re not value and can’t thougth purify. Suggestion from psychiatrist for you in order to make you wary. Especially, if someone start to write dying exhortation, divide their property, or say thank you cause all your goodness. See the drastic change fron sadness to be calmness which could be caused by  peace feeling that all sufering is over soon.

The solution is dare in yourself. The key is if you can control youself. Beside it, you can go to the psychiatrist. Maybe you can be calm after you’ve told something to the psychiatrist, or psychiatrist would try to solve your problem? So don’t ever try to kill yourself, cause is not the solution.

Suicide fact, you’ll never thing that someone who will kill him/herself won’t to do it. Exactly, this is the sign you have to know for preventing suicide.

 If a friend says “i want to die”, don’t panic or just laugh. So u can do it :

  •  Face every threatment seriously. Far all facilities to do it, for example pil, tablet, toxic,etc. And if it happen, go to the hospital. The dangerous time is in the weekend, where 40 % suicide actions is often happen.
  • If do you feel your friend trying to do suicide, talk with him/her direcly.
  • Listen your friend whis is broken off without judge anything, criticism, or gripe. Cause they don’t need it.
  • Says them that feel depression can miss if they do therapy. Make they certain that is not lie.
  • Don’t save this fact alone. Cause tell something to someone who you believe or the psychiatrist maybe they can be calm or solve their problem.
  • Don’t feel responsibility for make it cure. It just make you frustated.


source :

  1. Cosmopolitan Magazine Indonesia
  2. Sosiology for 3rd Senior High School
Published in: on April 6, 2010 at 9:45 am  Comments (2)  

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  1. Guys tend to use the hard way to die, while girls are using the softer way. And the fact is Romeo take a poison to die…is that mean he is gay? 😀

    Now, the serious part is, if someone say to you that he or she will trying a suicide. Do not hesitate to to send them to meet the experts such as psychiatrist or psychologist. Because sometimes our advice as an non expert can actually make the situation get worse for the people who want to commit suicide.

    • Men prefer using hard method than soft method, that’s why men success for doing suicide. 🙂
      We give them persuasion, if they still wanna do suicide, we can go psychiatrist or psychologist.

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